Pauline, sorry to hear about your daughter's plight. We are inclined to think that everything that happens is awful, but Pauline no-one was killed or seriously injured. The situation could have been sooo much worse.
I do hope Heidi can get her life sorted, I have her at the top of my prayer list.
I want to encourage youngsters (male or female) to get into the kitchen and enjoy cooking. TASTE it!